The first time my husband had a TMJ attack was when we were first dating. He was a teacher in Tennessee and up in New Jersey visiting family for the summer. His school district was going through some big shake-ups and he wasn’t sure he’d have a position in the fall. Needless to say, that stress brought on an attack of TMJ, something I’d never heard of before. TMJ stands for temporomandibular joint syndrome. This joint connects the temporal bone, which forms the side of the skull, with the mandible or jawbone. When this joint is irritated and not functioning properly it causes extreme pain in the muscles and joints of the jaw. That pain can spread to the face, neck and shoulder as well. It is difficult to open the mouth. The most common underlying causes of this painful condition are stress, grinding the teeth (especially during the night) and a poor bite. Believe me I got an education in this condition and quickly!
That first time I witnessed the attack it wasn’t one of his worst and it only lasted a few days. Thankfully, he was told his job was secure and was able to relax and release the stress. Once we were married I realized he was grinding his teeth almost every night. I’d nudge him and interrupt whenever I was awake and heard him. It wasn’t long before he had another attack, which lasted about a week this time. He didn’t get these attacks all the time, but when he did he was in so much pain he was totally bedridden and out of commission for days at a time. Continue reading →